Messages that stay civil and stay on the record
Keep co-parenting conversations in one place, separate from your personal texts, with a record you can rely on.
A permanent record
Messages cannot be edited or deleted, and every one is timestamped with read receipts, so there is never a question about who said what.
A tone check before you send
If a draft looks likely to start an argument, MiddleWise suggests calmer wording that keeps every date, time and request. You always choose what is sent.
Quick replies for handovers
One tap for "On my way", "Running about 10 minutes late" or "Got them, all good". Notifications reach your phone when a new message arrives.
Common questions
What is the BIFF method?
BIFF stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm. It is a widely used way to keep co-parenting messages calm and focused on the children, and it is what the tone check is based on.
Start with the schedule. Invite your co-parent when you're ready.
Setting up takes a few minutes. Nothing is sent to anyone until you choose to invite them.