When you are stuck, talk to someone in the middle
A neutral mediator helps you and your co-parent reach decisions about schedules, holidays, activities and money, without another argument.
Shuttle mediation, privately
Each parent talks with the mediator on their own. It listens, turns blame into underlying needs, and passes on only what helps, asking first before sharing anything sensitive.
Work through real documents
Either parent can share a draft parenting plan or holiday schedule. The mediator reads it and helps you both work through the details.
Agreements in writing
When you agree, the mediator drafts the terms for both parents to accept. Agreements are dated and appear in your reports.
Common questions
Is this a replacement for a family mediator or lawyer?
No. It is a way to work through everyday decisions together. It is not legal advice, and it is not suitable where there are safety concerns; the mediator flags those and points you to help.
Start with the schedule. Invite your co-parent when you're ready.
Setting up takes a few minutes. Nothing is sent to anyone until you choose to invite them.